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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.11.81 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Mon, 13 Feb 2012 22:43:27 GMT--><rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:rss="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:admin="http://webns.net/mvcb/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:cc="http://web.resource.org/cc/"><rss:channel rdf:about="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/"><rss:title>Tim English's Wedding Industry, DJ and Small Business Blog</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/</rss:link><rss:description>Tim English goes on and on about topics that interest him.</rss:description><dc:language>en-US</dc:language><dc:date>2012-02-13T22:43:27Z</dc:date><admin:generatorAgent rdf:resource="http://www.squarespace.com/">Squarespace Site Server v5.11.81 (http://www.squarespace.com/)</admin:generatorAgent><rss:items><rdf:Seq><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2011/3/28/renting-a-photo-booth-classic-arcade-style-vs-the-new-open-l.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2011/3/21/im-so-sick-of-starbucks-so-i-got-an-office.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2011/3/18/top-5-tips-to-get-the-most-out-of-any-photo-booth-rental.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2011/3/13/the-top-4-things-i-hate-about-your-web-site.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2011/3/11/i-went-to-vegas-and-all-i-got-was-this-awesome-photo-booth.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2010/6/29/ive-been-having-fun-with-the-photo-booth.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2010/4/9/totally-self-serving-announcement-i-have-a-photo-booth.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2010/2/24/stuff-a-dj-should-know.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2010/2/21/mblvx-mobile-beat-las-vegas-2010-at-the-riviera-the-good-the.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2010/2/2/sometimes-you-have-to-fire-the-client.html"/></rdf:Seq></rss:items></rss:channel><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2011/3/28/renting-a-photo-booth-classic-arcade-style-vs-the-new-open-l.html"><rss:title>Renting a Photo Booth - Classic Arcade Style Vs The New Open Layout</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2011/3/28/renting-a-photo-booth-classic-arcade-style-vs-the-new-open-l.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Tim English</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-03-28T21:54:16Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you're shopping around for a photo booth for a wedding or other social event, you may have noticed there are now at least two radically different types available. There's the traditional arcade style booth, with a bench, a roof and privacy curtains. But there's also a new open design photo booth. The open layout booth ditches the classic boxed-in look, in favor of just having a camera facing a backdrop. Both of these configurations have their pros and cons.</p>
<p>The open booths have two primary benefits. First, larger group shots. Since there is not a limiting little box for your guests to climb into, you can typically squeeze up to 10 people in a group shot. Large group shots are much more fun to take, and create better photographic memories. Secondly, the fun is kept out in the open so everyone can see and participate. The laughter created by 10 people trying to squeeze into a group shot is absolutely contagious. Open booths are typically much easier to transport and can often go where arcade style booths can't. The second floor of a building with no elevator, for example. The trade off is that the open design doesn't look like a traditional photo booth. In fact, it's not a booth at all, even though they call it one. They are also not recommended for outdoor events in the sunlight, unless arrangements are made to block the sunlight. Photos will be inconsistent throughout the day, and some photos may look very bad if direct sunlight is shining on the subjects.</p>
<p>There is still something to be said for the classic arcade style booths. Some people just prefer the nostalgia of an arcade booth. There's no mistaking the signature look of an enclosed booth with privacy curtains. Oh, and about those curtains, if you think some of your guests would like to pose au natural after a few libations, then the enclosed arcade booth is definitely for you! Arcade booths can also be a better choice if there are space concerns, as they have a much smaller footprint than the area taken up by an open photo booth. The arcade style booth is highly recommended for outdoor events when sunlight may be a factor. Since they are enclosed, there is a much more controlled environment to take consistent photos for the duration of the event. Of course the downside is that the typical arcade photo booth will only fit 2-4 guests at a time.</p>
<p>Be on the lookout for the latest in technology, live video recording. Some booths will offer your guests the option to record a short video for the guest of honor after they have posed for their photo strip. This is what wedding videographers used to go table to table to do. But doing the video in the booth affords the guest some privacy, and since it is optional, no one is put on the spot and made to feel uncomfortable. The downside of the video photo booth is that it may take longer to get guests in and out of the booth. It is recommended that if you rent a photo booth with video capability, you reserve it for a longer period of time than you would a regular photo booth. You want all your guests to have the opportunity to use the booth. Some vendors will also rent you a second booth for your event at a significant discount since two booths side by side will typically still only require the watchful eyes of one attendant.</p>
<p>Which ever style you decide on, shop a few companies. Try to base your decision on the entertainment value the booth will provide to your event. Be sure to check with your venue too. Most catering managers have seen photo booths in their venue and they may have some thoughts about what works best for their particular location.</p>
<p>For more information about either type of <a href="http://www.StarlightPhotoBooth.com">photo booth rental in San Diego</a>, please see my photo booth company at http://www.StarlightPhotoBooth.com.&nbsp;</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2011/3/21/im-so-sick-of-starbucks-so-i-got-an-office.html"><rss:title>I'm So Sick Of Starbucks! So I Got An Office.</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2011/3/21/im-so-sick-of-starbucks-so-i-got-an-office.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Tim English</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-03-22T02:00:57Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We FINALLY signed the lease on an office in East Mission Valley! I no longer have to submit myself to the judgment of the skinny-jean wearin', MySpace account havin' hipsters in the employ of Starbucks. I just know they are thinking "Really? You're going to buy a bottle of water and take up a table here for 90 minutes? Really?" They say "really" a lot.&nbsp;</p>
<p>We did it mostly because it makes sense. Aside from the suck factor of meeting at Starbucks, we have some upgrades that really need to be seen, rather than explained. Uplights, monogram projector, and best of all... two photo booths!&nbsp;</p>
<p>On a personal note, I really hope having the office will help draw a line between work time and personal time. Working from home tends to blur the line and burn me out. I want to work at work, and be a normal person at home. I'm seriously considering removing my home office so I'm not so tempted to sit here for hours at a time, writing blog posts about hipsters.</p>
<p>The space is located on Mission Gorge Place, right off of Mission Gorge Road. It's a great central location. We will have two tenants sharing the space, a wedding coordinator and a photographer. We will definitely have some events surrounding the grand opening, I'll keep everyone posted.&nbsp;</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2011/3/18/top-5-tips-to-get-the-most-out-of-any-photo-booth-rental.html"><rss:title>Top 5 Tips To Get The Most Out Of Any Photo Booth Rental</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2011/3/18/top-5-tips-to-get-the-most-out-of-any-photo-booth-rental.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Tim English</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-03-18T21:12:00Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Renting a <a href="http://www.starlightphotobooth.com">photo booth</a> can be quite expensive. To get the most out of the experience, remember that a photo booth is a part of the entertainment. These tips will help you make the booth as entertaining as possible, and therefore, get your guests to take more pictures!</p>
<p><span style="font-size: 130%;">1. Use props! </span>Even if your event is an elegant, black tie affair, you simply must use props in your photo booth. Your guests will have so much more fun using silly hats, glasses and boas. Props also encourage people to use the booth more than once per evening. If you want to get people to come back over and over, the props are the best way to do it. Here's a tip if you still think your event is too fancy for props: Hide the props until the last hour of the photo booth rental. This will give everyone a chance to have nice pictures taken in their tuxedos and evening gowns, then they'll be back for more when you take out the props.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: 130%;">2. Put it close to the action. </span>Don't stick your photo booth in the foyer if you don't have to. Fun is contagious, why not put it with the rest of the party? One of the best locations is across from the dance floor if you're also having a DJ. Just remember, if the period of time you have rented the booth is shorter than the party, they will have to set it up and/or break it down in full view of your guests. Make sure the set up and break down times don't conflict with scheduled events, such as speech or toast time.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: 130%;">3. Use the photo strips as the party favors. </span>Most photo booth companies can put custom text on the photo strips for you, which makes them a fabulous memento that will never be thrown away. This should also save you a few bucks and help you pay for the photo booth rental. Let's say you have a hundred guests, and you want to give each of them a small token of appreciation. At $5 each, your cost for those party favors is $500! Why not put that money into your photo booth budget?</p>
<p><span style="font-size: 130%;">4. Make a memory book. </span>Many photo booth companies can provide a book, or you may do it yourself. You will want to ask the rental company if their booth will automatically do double prints so your guests keep a copy, and another copy can be put in the memory book. Provide some pens and have your guests sign in next to their photos. Another fun thing to do is to buy stickers that look like speech bubbles. People can put silly comments in the speech bubbles. The bottom line is, people can be quite creative. The more creative options you give them, the more they will come back to use the booth.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: 130%;">5. Make custom cutouts to pose with.</span> This can be a really simple way to personalize your photo booth experience. For a wedding, send 8x10 headshot pictures to be printed at WalMart, or Kinkos, or wherever you print your photos. Make sure the heads fill up the entire frame. Cut them out, give them a cardboard (or similar) backing, and attach to a wooden paint stir stick. People will pose with the bride and groom all night! For other events, simple sayings on signs such as "BFF" or "OMG" will have your guests in stitches. For some events, you can even use bumper stickers with funny sayings (such as "I'm with stupid") pressed onto a cardboard backing.</p>
<p>For more information about <a href="http://www.starlightphotobooth.com">San Diego Photo Booth Rentals</a>, please visit http://www.StarlightPhotoBooth.com</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2011/3/13/the-top-4-things-i-hate-about-your-web-site.html"><rss:title>The Top 4 Things I Hate About Your Web Site</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2011/3/13/the-top-4-things-i-hate-about-your-web-site.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Tim English</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-03-14T03:10:07Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span style="font-size: 110%;">"As a San Diego DJ, and a San Diego Wedding Professional, it was a pleasure being the disc jockey for hire at Tom and Melissa's San Diego wedding celebration special event in San Diego, California."</span>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2011/3/11/i-went-to-vegas-and-all-i-got-was-this-awesome-photo-booth.html"><rss:title>I Went To Vegas and All I Got Was This Awesome Photo Booth</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2011/3/11/i-went-to-vegas-and-all-i-got-was-this-awesome-photo-booth.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Tim English</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-03-11T18:00:50Z</dc:date><dc:subject>DJ Industry Las Vegas MBLVXX Mobile Beat Photo Booth</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Everywhere you turned, the exhibit hall was packed with <a href="http://www.starlightphotobooth.com">photo booth</a> manufacturers at the 2011 DJ conference (MBLVXX) in Las Vegas. The offerings ranged from a wooden box on a tripod, to an all metal booth with shiny, fleck filled automotive-type paint, and everything in between. The manufacturer of the booth we already own was there, with sparsely clothed models dancing around his exhibit space. This was our first stop. Not because of the models, but because we had already decided that we were going to buy a 2nd booth. 2010 was awesome for photo booth bookings, and 2011 looks even better. It was just a matter of negotiating a price and delivery terms. But when it came time to get some questions answered, we couldn't get the time of day. It seemed the photo booth guy was too busy delighting in the company of his barren-buttcheeked models. Ok, I guess I don't blame him, but we were there for business. We decided to try again later and have a look around. &nbsp;</p>
<p>It's a good thing we did. If it hadn't been for the half dressed honeys, we would have missed out on the booth we ended up purchasing. We were just passing time when a photo booth salesman from a different company pulled us out of the aisle. He quickly showed us all the features of the booth, each one more impressive than the last. But I think I made up my mind when he showed us that the photo booth also records video clips! A brilliant feature that is missing from all other photo booths. We knew we had a unique opportunity to bring a product to market that is generations ahead of what's out there. Andy and I did some deliberating, but not much. We knew that even though it cost about double what we were expecting to spend, this was the booth for <a href="http://www.starlightphotobooth.com">Starlight Photo Booth</a>.&nbsp;</p>
<p>In keeping with the company name and theme, Andy thought we should call it The Galaxy Photo Booth. Even the paint job fits with the theme of the company, it's called (coincidentally) "Starry Night." The booth is all metal, and the black automotive paint job has a metal fleck in it. Any cholo would be proud to have this paint job on his '64 Impala. The Galaxy Photo Booth is beautiful, and can be used in the open like our current booth, or in the traditional Arcade configuration.&nbsp;</p>
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<p>For more information about <a href="http://www.starlightphotobooth.com">San Diego Photo Booth rentals</a>, please visit http://www.StarlightPhotoBooth.com.&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2010/6/29/ive-been-having-fun-with-the-photo-booth.html"><rss:title>I've been having fun with the photo booth!</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2010/6/29/ive-been-having-fun-with-the-photo-booth.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Tim English</dc:creator><dc:date>2010-06-29T07:50:42Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Fun/Oddities</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many of my friends have been asking me how the new <a href="http://www.starlightphotobooth.com">photo booth rental</a> venture is going, so here's an update for everyone. We've had great success with the <a href="http://www.starlightphotobooth.com">photo booth</a> so far, and we've only had it a few months. My favorite part of the new business is working the booth myself. I really don't consider it work at all, it's too much fun! We've had the booth out at weddings, corporate events, fund raisers and schools. Here's some pictures of the results.</p>
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<p>&nbsp;You've got to love the props!</p>
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<p>&nbsp;Notice the large groups we can fit in our booth.</p>
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<p>This is the co-owner of the booth, Andy and me.&nbsp;</p>
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<p>Brilliant design! This is why we can fit such large group shots. We're not limited by a tiny wooden structure.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.starlightphotobooth.com">Starlight Photo Booth</a></p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2010/4/9/totally-self-serving-announcement-i-have-a-photo-booth.html"><rss:title>Totally Self Serving Announcement - I have a PHOTO BOOTH!</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2010/4/9/totally-self-serving-announcement-i-have-a-photo-booth.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Tim English</dc:creator><dc:date>2010-04-09T23:35:59Z</dc:date><dc:subject>DJ Industry</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On Monday, we drove all the way to Santa Barbara to pick up our brand new, custom built <a href="http://www.starlightphotobooth.com">photo booth</a>. It's not like other booths. There's no ugly wooden structure around it, nor are you limited in how many people can squeeze into a picture. It works perfectly well out in the open, or enclosed in a pipe and drape system. It gives us the flexibility to put it anywhere, and create custom looks. I just finished the first version of the web site for our new <a href="http://www.starlightphotobooth.com">photo booth rental</a> company. Of course I will update it as I get more pictures from events. But for now, you can get a pretty good idea of how it works by going to <a href="http://www.starlightphotobooth.com">Starlight Photo Booth</a>. Let me know what you think!</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2010/2/24/stuff-a-dj-should-know.html"><rss:title>Stuff a DJ should know.</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2010/2/24/stuff-a-dj-should-know.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Tim English</dc:creator><dc:date>2010-02-25T02:46:33Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is the first piece in a series, or perhaps I should call it a theme. I want to write about things that a DJ should know. Tidbits of information that a normal person shouldn&rsquo;t know, but as a DJ, people will think you&rsquo;re an idiot if you don&rsquo;t. In this piece, I will tell you more than you want to know about Cole Porter.</p>
<p>A request for &ldquo;something by Cole Porter&rdquo; can be a bit confusing. Cole Porter was an American songwriter whose most famous work is <em>Anything Goes</em>, a Broadway musical for which he wrote the score. Cole Porter was an unusual talent because he wrote the music <em>and</em> lyrics for his songs. Most musical composers use a lyricist. For example, in the duo Rogers and Hammerstein, Rogers composed the music, Hammerstein penned the lyrics.&nbsp; As DJs, it&rsquo;s pretty unusual to get a request for a composer, as opposed to getting a request for a singer or for a specific song. To make it more confusing, Cole also performed and recorded some of his songs himself. If I type &ldquo;Cole Porter&rdquo; into the artist search in my computer, at least 3 or 4 songs will come up, all sung by Cole Porter. But the truth is, Cole Porter&rsquo;s singing voice was about as pleasant as sitting on a sharp tack. His nasal voice would make you stick your fingers (or maybe spikes) in your ears. People don&rsquo;t want to hear him sing. They want to hear his songs, sung by people who can actually sing. What a DJ needs to know, is that when people ask for Cole Porter, they are really asking for Jazz Standards like <em>I Get A Kick Out Of You</em>, or <em>Under My Skin</em>, as sung by singers like Frank Sinatra. Most DJs don&rsquo;t have their music indexed by composer, so this is something you just have to know.</p>
<p>Cole Porter&rsquo;s most famous personal attribute was the fact that he was a notorious mama&rsquo;s boy. He mostly lived off of his family&rsquo;s fortune after his first few flops on Broadway. His most notable professional attribute, aside from the fact that he wrote his music <em>and</em> lyrics, was that his lyrics were so witty. I thought it would be appropriate to leave you by quoting some typical Cole Porter&hellip;</p>
<p>&ldquo;Good authors, too, who once knew better words now only use four-letter words writing prose... anything goes.&rdquo;</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2010/2/21/mblvx-mobile-beat-las-vegas-2010-at-the-riviera-the-good-the.html"><rss:title>MBLVX – Mobile Beat Las Vegas 2010 at the Riviera. The Good, the Bad, and the Fugly.</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2010/2/21/mblvx-mobile-beat-las-vegas-2010-at-the-riviera-the-good-the.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Tim English</dc:creator><dc:date>2010-02-21T21:17:58Z</dc:date><dc:subject>DJ Industry</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[MBLVX, The DJ Conference in Las Vegas, 2010. This was no gold mine, but there were a few nuggets to be found.]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2010/2/2/sometimes-you-have-to-fire-the-client.html"><rss:title>Sometimes, you have to fire the client.</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.perfectlyentertaining.com/blog/2010/2/2/sometimes-you-have-to-fire-the-client.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Tim English</dc:creator><dc:date>2010-02-02T18:50:39Z</dc:date><dc:subject>DJ Industry</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know a lot of DJs are willing to put up with anything to make the sale. But I&rsquo;ve come to realize that there <em>is</em> such a thing as a &ldquo;bad&rdquo; client. Don&rsquo;t get me wrong, <em>demanding</em> doesn&rsquo;t equate with <em>bad</em>. Some of my best clients have been my most demanding ones. What makes them my best clients? Some of my clients with the highest expectations have become my most fervent advocates. They insist that their friends and family use my services because I promised the moon, and delivered. On the opposite side of the coin, if you find a client that seems like they just can&rsquo;t be pleased even if you deliver the moon, and throw in the rings of Saturn as a &ldquo;show special,&rdquo; you aren&rsquo;t doing yourself any favors by working for them.</p>
<p>This topic came to mind because of a bizarre incident with a potential client at a recent bridal show. I should have seen it coming. He rubbed me the wrong way from the moment he introduced himself. It was a very loud show with hundreds of vendors in an echo-filled convention center. So when this soft spoken guy came up to me and introduced himself, I misunderstood him. I though he said his name was Tim. I leaned in a little closer and said, &ldquo;Tim?&rdquo; I was about to comment on the fact that we have the same name. I was going to crack a little joke about it or something. You know how it goes when you&rsquo;re trying to make small talk. But then he lowered his chin slightly, and in an exaggeratedly slow speaking voice, he said &ldquo;No, <em>you</em> are Tim. My name is Tom. Your name is Tim, and my name is Tom.&rdquo; He was enunciating each syllable as if he was trying to talk to me through a pane of glass. Then, he pointed at me with both index fingers, then back at himself with his thumbs as he slowly said &ldquo;Tim, Tom. Got it now?&rdquo; I immediately made a mental note. Either this guy&rsquo;s personality lends itself to being too comfortable with strangers, or he&rsquo;s the type of guy to give a waitress a hard time just for the satisfaction of it. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and continued our conversation.</p>
<p>Twenty minutes of abuse later, not only did I regret giving him the benefit of the doubt, but I began to regret waking up that morning. All of his questions involved laying out his low opinion of me and my profession, then asking me to defend myself. &ldquo;I don&rsquo;t understand why I can&rsquo;t just ask one of my guests to make a few announcements, and have another guy play music. I mean really, how hard can it be? You don&rsquo;t need a degree to do this, do you? You just switch songs and speak into a microphone a few times. Anyone can do that, right?&rdquo; When I told him that I would provide a veteran entertainer&rsquo;s perspective to the team, I would keep everything flowing smoothly, coordinate with other important vendors, and use my many years of experience to keep things on track and entertaining, his response went something like this&hellip; &ldquo;It sounds to me like all these things you <em>say</em> you do, are responsibilities that overlap with other [pause] <em>professionals</em> I&rsquo;ve hired. I wouldn&rsquo;t expect my photographer to need a DJ to hold his hand so he doesn&rsquo;t miss any shots, and my fianc&eacute; has hired a wedding coordinator. It seems like you get to twiddle your thumbs while other [pause] <em>professionals</em> do the work, but I still have to write you a big, fat check.&rdquo;</p>
<p>I know what you&rsquo;re thinking. &ldquo;Oh snap, Tim! No he didn&rsquo;t! I would have sent him packing!&rdquo; So I feel the need to explain that I never turn down a client on the spot. I&rsquo;ve had plenty of "difficult" clients turn out to be my best advocates. I&rsquo;ve had clients tell me they didn&rsquo;t want me to play even one song that you would normally hear at a wedding. I&rsquo;ve had clients ask me to practice making scripted announcements in a foreign language. I&rsquo;ve even had a client ask me to help clean up because they only had 30 minutes to get out of the hall. All of that is fine. I took those gigs, and I would gladly take them again. Those clients were not being difficult for difficulty&rsquo;s sake. They considered me a part of their team, not the opposition. I always sleep on it before I turn an event down because I need to differentiate between the ones who are just trying to make a prudent decision the best way they know how, versus those who simply enjoy harassing &ldquo;the help.&rdquo; Tom was definitely the latter. Tom hasn&rsquo;t called yet, but if he does, I&rsquo;m booked. Whatever date it is, even if it&rsquo;s three years from now on a Wednesday morning, I&rsquo;m booked.</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item></rdf:RDF>
